Dis-missives

            If you are like me (you have my condolences), you probably haven’t written a letter to anyone for a while.  The advent of email started the decline in letter writing and text messages have continued the process.

            Like so many things about new technologies, there are good and bad things about the way we used to do things and the ways we do them now.  Letters on paper are great, but it takes a real effort to write a letter (legibly), address the envelope, find a stamp, and mail it.  An email or a text can be done almost effortlessly, in no time at all, and it gets delivered instantly, unlike a mailed letter that will get there in a few days.

            Ironically, one of the best things about written letters is that they do take real effort.  Unlike a text that can be accomplished while seated on the toilet (I know.  Awful, right?), a letter involves finding note paper, a clear spot on a desk, a pen or pencil, and some dedicated time.  The recipient will know that your letter took some effort and will appreciate it.

            Another great thing about written letters is that you have the opportunity for a do-over.  Let’s say you are upset with someone and decide to let them know.  An email or a text allows you to channel your unhappiness efficiently and effectively into a “nasty-gram” that gets your point across, but perhaps in a way you’ll later regret.

            A letter, on the other hand, is the result of a process which has several moments during which you can have second thoughts, or at least a thought. 

            Handwriting is a real issue.  Mine is a barely passable hybrid of cursive writing and printing.  Some people have beautiful cursive writing, which I admire.  Some writing is baffling.  Doctors have that reputation.

    Sadly, new generations aren’t being taught cursive, so we may as well write letters using Morse code.

            As a kid the daily arrival of the mailman (now called mail person) was a big deal, even though most days there were no letters for me.  Now any actual letter helps to balance off the bills and fundraising requests.

            One of my resolutions this year was to write more letters.  The year is nearly half over, so I guess it’s time to start.  Now how do I hold this pen again?